Relationship Advice for the End of the School Year: How to Stay Connected as Your Paths Diverge

May 19, 2023

As the school year comes to an end, we know it can feel like a whirlwind of emotions. You’re excited about what’s to come, but it’s tough to say goodbye to the relationships you’ve built and the friends you’ve made over the past several months or years. This can be a bittersweet and challenging time, but as your paths diverge, staying connected and maintaining meaningful relationships with those you care about is possible. 


Change is a part of life, and it’s normal for relationships to shift and change as we grow and evolve. It’s especially tough for students during times of transition, like the end of the school year. You may be saying goodbye to close friends who are moving away for college, starting new jobs, or facing challenges with a significant other. But just because a relationship changes doesn’t mean it has to end altogether.


To keep your relationships alive, it’s necessary to make a conscious effort to stay in touch, even if it’s just virtually. Sending regular text messages, making phone calls, or scheduling video calls are great ways to catch up and stay connected. And when you have a chance, plan in-person get-togethers, like a road trip, picnic, or movie night. These activities will help you catch up and remind you that these relationships are essential to your life.


It’s also important to be genuine and sincere about your feelings. For example, if you’re sad or anxious about losing touch with someone, talk to them about it. Sharing your thoughts and feelings can deepen your connection and create a stronger bond with them.


If you’re in a romantic relationship, the end of the school year can be even more complicated. But don’t worry; approach the situation as a team and with compassion. Focus on creating meaningful memories and enjoying the time you have together. Communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and your plans for the future. By having these conversations early on, you can make decisions together about the future of your relationship.


At Collage, we know that relationships can be challenging, especially during times of transition. But with compassion, understanding, and open communication, you can maintain solid and valuable connections with those you care about, even as you take different paths.

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