I Just Received a Sext - What Do I Do?

June 2, 2023
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Picture this: you're scrolling through your phone when suddenly, a notification pops up. It's a message from someone you know, and as you read it, you realize it's a sext - a sexually explicit message, photo, or video. You may not be sure what to do or how to react. If this scenario sounds familiar, you're not alone. Sexting has become a common form of communication among teens and young adults, but it's not without its risks. 


In this blog, we'll explore the world of sexting and its potential consequences and offer practical tips for handling sexting situations safely and responsibly. So, buckle up and get ready to learn how to navigate the tricky waters of sexting.


If you receive a sext:

  • Don't share the sext. It's important not to share the sext with anyone else, as it could harm the person who sent it or violate their privacy. Legally, if you send images to others, you could be accused of revenge porn - where you knowingly and intentionally distribute or otherwise make public an image or video of another person's intimate area if the other person had a reasonable expectation that the photo would remain private. Nebraska Revenge Porn Law-LB630 This violation could result in a possible misdemeanor or felony.
  • Seek support. If you're feeling overwhelmed or unsure how to handle the situation, it's crucial to seek help from a trusted friend, family member, or adult. You can also contact a helpline or chat service for advice and guidance.
  • Report the sext. If the sext is non-consensual or involves a minor (person under 19), reporting it to the appropriate authorities is vital. This includes law enforcement or school officials.


If you receive a sex request:

  • Don't feel obligated to send a nude photo. Remember, it's your body, and you have the right to say no. 
  • Be aware of potential consequences. Sending nude photos can have serious consequences, both legally and emotionally. Once an image is sent, you lose control. You now have no choice over who sees it and where it goes, and who it could be shared with. Current laws in Nebraska provide that it is permitted for teenagers no more than two years apart in age to engage in consensual sexting without being accused of a sex crime if the sender is less than 19 years old and the receiver is no younger than 15.
  • Consider the person who is asking. If you receive a sext request from someone you know, think carefully about the nature of your relationship with them and whether you feel comfortable sending explicit photos or videos. If the request is from a stranger, it's best to ignore it and block them.
  • Set clear boundaries. If someone continues to pressure you for a nude photo or makes you uncomfortable, it's important to be clear about your boundaries and communicate them firmly. It may be best to stop contact with them if they continue pushing.


Sexting can be tempting, but it's important to remember that it comes with risks. You have the right to say no, set boundaries, and seek help if you feel overwhelmed. Ultimately, being smart with what you're doing and using common sense can help you stay safe and make informed decisions regarding sexting. So, be smart, be safe, and stay in control of your life.


Want to stay informed and learn more about Sexting laws in Nebraska? https://recordinglaw.com/us-laws/federal-sexting-laws/nebraska-sexting-laws/

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