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Six Things To Do If You’re Single On Valentine’s Day

CollageCenter • Feb 10, 2014

It’s almost here.


The dreaded day. Valentine’s Day.


If you’re single on Valentine’s Day it can be tough. It can also be exceptionally hard if you’re a young single mom.


At Collage, we understand that sometimes Valentine’s Day can be lonely. But we also want you to know that this day doesn’t need get you down in the dumps.


You know why?

Because YOU are beautiful.

You are amazing.

You are not defined by one day out of the year.

And you are loved!


We want Valentine’s Day to be special for you, so we’ve come up with six things to do if you’re single on Valentine’s Day.


  1. Make plans with a good friend. Rent a funny movie. Laugh. Have a good time. No need to be all gloomy. Laughing is healthy for you and it should be done often.
  2. Do something nice for someone who could use some extra attention. Visit older people in your neighborhood. Bake them cookies. We promise it will make their day!
  3. Write down 25 things that only you can do. You will surprise yourself! Pull out this list next time you start to feel down.
  4. Refuse to allow your self-esteem to be affected by a date on the calendar. You’re more than 24 hours. So prove it to yourself. Plan to learn something new on this day. Read about a topic you’re curious about. Go to a library, museum, or try something creative.
  5. Write a thank you note to someone who has contributed in your personal growth. It could be a parent, teacher or community leader. By thinking of others, it will help you take your mind off of yourself. It also is a great way to focus on gratitude.
  6. Plan on volunteering at a local non-profit organization, even if it’s just for an hour. You’ll feel better by helping a worthwhile cause.


Whatever you end up doing this Valentine’s Day, know that you are loved and that we’re here for you.



Do you have other helpful ideas to add to the list of things to do if you’re single on Valentine’s Day? We’d love to hear them. Please share your ideas in our comments.

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